Dear Officer,

Do you remember me?  I'm the woman who frantically called you three times this year because my husband came home drunk and was violent.  You were annoyed because I called for help so often; yet after each incident, and in spite of your warnings, I'd go back into the same situation without taking legal action.

A few months ago, I began attending Al-Anon meetings regularly.   I now understand that alcoholism is a disease and my husband is out of control when he is drunk.  Because of the support I receive from others who have had similar experiences, it's clear to me I do not have to accept violence as a part of my life.  Today, Al-Anon is giving me the courage to take the steps I need to protect myself and my children.  I'm learning to make healthy choices for myself.  I feel that if you'd refer other people like me to Al-Anon, they would be forever grateful.  Perhaps my story will help you when you encounter a similar situation. 

Reprinted with permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.,
Virginia Beach, VA